By Tracey-Ann Fyine
Every day, we're bombarded with advice, opinions, and "shoulds" from every direction. Social media tells us how to live, family members share their expectations, and society has its own blueprint for success. But here's what I've learned through my own journey and working with countless women: your inner voice is the most reliable GPS you'll ever have.
Your intuition isn't just a feeling—it's your internal guidance system that has access to information your logical mind hasn't even processed yet. It's that quiet knowing that says "yes, this is right" or "something feels off here." The challenge? We've been taught to ignore it in favor of what looks good on paper.
I remember working with a client who had a "perfect" job offer—great salary, prestigious company, all the external markers of success. But something in her gut kept saying no. She almost took it anyway because it looked so good to everyone else. When she finally listened to her inner voice and declined, a better opportunity appeared within weeks that aligned perfectly with her values and long-term goals.
"Your inner voice has never steered you wrong. Every time you've ignored it and later thought 'I knew I should have...' that was your intuition trying to guide you."
From childhood, many of us learn to prioritize external validation over internal wisdom. We're rewarded for following rules, meeting expectations, and making others comfortable. Slowly, we start to doubt that quiet voice inside that knows what's truly right for us.
But here's the truth: your inner voice is your connection to your authentic self. It knows your values, your dreams, and your purpose better than any external authority ever could.
Like any skill, listening to your inner voice gets stronger with practice. Here's how to tune in:
Your inner voice speaks in whispers, not shouts. Create space for silence in your day—even five minutes of quiet reflection can help you hear what your soul is trying to tell you.
Your body often knows before your mind does. Pay attention to how different decisions make you feel physically. Does your chest tighten or expand? Do you feel energized or drained?
Begin with low-stakes decisions. Which route to take home? What to have for lunch? As you practice trusting your intuition on small things, you'll build confidence for bigger choices.
When you learn to trust your inner voice, you stop living by committee. You make decisions that align with your authentic self rather than what others expect. You choose relationships, careers, and opportunities that truly serve your highest good.
This doesn't mean ignoring wise counsel or being reckless. It means filtering external input through your own inner knowing and making choices that feel right in your soul, not just on paper.
"I trust the wisdom within me. I honor my intuition as my internal GPS. I make decisions that align with my authentic self, and I trust that my inner voice will always guide me toward my highest good."
Sometimes your inner voice will ask you to do things that don't make sense to others. It might tell you to leave the "safe" job, end the comfortable relationship, or pursue the "impractical" dream. This is where courage comes in.
Your inner voice is your superpower. It's your direct line to your purpose, your values, and your truth. It's time to turn up the volume and let it guide you toward the life you're truly meant to live.
Trust yourself—you know more than you think you do. 🌟